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MESSAGE TO SINGLE LADIES WHO PUT THEIR EGGS IN MANY BASKETS

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My dear sisters, I advice you today with all sense of humility. Do not believe or act on the slogan that says "I DON'T PUT MY EGGS IN ONE BASKET". The true reason why larger percentage of single ladies have decided not to put their eggs in one basket, is as a result of the fear of being disappointed by that one man they are dating.  If a lady decides to put her eggs in 5 baskets (i.e. dating 5 men) because of fear of being disappointed by 4 men out of the 5 men, the question is....What if all those 5 baskets (i.e. men) are all bad? ....... Surely the lady will still end up picking one of her eggs from one of the 5 bad baskets. This will definitely result to choosing and marrying a bad husband.  This understanding was given to me when I was sharing the word of God with a few persons. I have never thought about this, but truly the message dropped into my heart at that moment and I had to let it out. My beloved single sisters, the gospel truth is that, if you have 1-5 basket...

IS SOCIAL MEDIA GOOD OR BAD?

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Social Media is defined as websites and applications that enable users to create and share content or to participate in social networking. Many people have questioned the emergence of social media and how much its introduction has done to the world negatively. But the big question remains, is social media GOOD or BAD ? The truth is that social media is not human and has no capacity on its own to cause problems in the society. Social media is a THING  and not  HUMAN. Social media is an innocent platform and has done nothing wrong. It is simply a platform created by humans for networking for the good reasons.  Social media is a virgin platform created and controlled by humans who determine what it projects to the world. Is like a virgin land waiting for a man or woman to cultivate on it. What we garbage in, is what we will garbage out. If you post evil on social media it will project evil, likewise if you post good, it will project good. However, there ...

11 CONSEQUENCES OF NOT SAYING 'I AM SORRY' TO YOUR SPOUSE

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1. It can hinder and delay reconciliation process. Not saying 'i am sorry' makes the heart of the one offended heavy and unprepared for reconciliation. Reconciliation process is smooth when there is show of remorse by the offender. But in a case the offender is not remorseful, reconciliation may likely not hold. 2. It can make the offended spouse to lock up his or her heart, with the feeling that his or her spouse don't want the marriage to continue. 3. It can lead to divorce when an offended spouse feels an unending emotional torture. Some partners see divorce as the only option to end emotional abuse in marriage. Especially in a situation where the offence was deliberate and happens consistently without an apology. 4. It can kill affection in marriage. When you refuse to say 'I am sorry' after an offence against your partner, it will gradually kill the affection your partner has for you. 5. It can lead to revenge. This is true, because when you make it a tradition...

9 WAYS TO OVERCOME FALSE ACCUSATION AS A MINISTER OF GOD WITHOUT OFFENDING GOD

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It is shocking how satan tries to pull down ministers of God using false accusations, especially after several failed attempts to make them sin against God through temptation. It is important to be aware that false accusation originated from the kingdom of darkness. This is scripturally true, because Satan was referred to as ' ACCUSER OF BRETHREN' in Revelation 12:10 . False accusation is initiated by Satan through demons on his instructions. These demons (i.e. accusing spirits) posses human beings who are spiritually weak, and use them to raise false accusations against ministers of God. These accusing demons carry out satan's intructions by using church members, husbands, wives of ministers of God, to raise false accusations against them, with the aim of getting church members query the genuineness of their ministries.  Satan gets upset when he comes across ministers of God who are spiritually strong and are doing exploits for God with their spiritual gifts. He tries t...

THE POWER OF SAYING 'I AM SORRY'

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It is true that no two individuals are the same, as a result of factors that has strongly contributed to our individual differences. One of such factors is family background/upbringing and it is one of the strongest factors that has contributed in shaping our behaviour. In the past and in recent times, many marriages have collapsed, some in seperation, divorce and some leading to the death of a partner. This happens because of how individual differences is managed by married couples.  Marital conflict is normal in marriage, because of the inevitable individual differences that occassionally occur among married couples.  Conflicts in marriage should not be allowed to escalate beyond what is normal, to avoid seperation of couples in marriage, divorce or death of a partner, as the case maybe. This brings us to the topic of this message,  THE POWER OF SAYING 'I AM SORRY'.  The use of the phrase, ' I AM SORRY ' have saved millions of marriages in the past, rec...

FIND OUT IF YOU GOT IT TWISTED

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The main reason for the birth of Jesus, was for 'Him' to come into the world to save mankind. Child of God do not get it twisted. Understanding the reason behind every celebration enables you to celebrate it in line with the right spirit and reason.  FIND OUT IF YOU GOT THE BIRTH OF JESUS TWISTED: 1. Did you steal in your work place to raise money to celebrate the birth of Jesus? 2. Did you commit adultery or fornication to raise money to celebrate 'His' birth? 3. Where you driven by greed to increase price of goods and services to raise money to celebrate Jesus? 4. Did you refuse to share with others believing you don't have enough to celebrate Jesus? 5. Did you get drunk as a way of celebrating the reason for the season? 6. Did you kidnap to raise money to celebrate 'His' birth? 7. Did you kill anyone for money ritual, to raise money to celebrate the birth of Jesus? 8. Is there any other sin that does not have a name, that you committed in orde...

30 POSSIBLE SIGNS YOUR PARTNER IS CHEATING ON YOU

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There are possible signs that your partner is cheating on you. When you notice any of these signs, it may not necessarily mean that your partner is cheating on you. Every cheating in marriage comes with its own signs. Some of these signs reported below have been seen to manifest in the behaviour of married men and women, who were later discovered to be cheating on their spouse. Once you start seeing these signs, then you have to wait for it, it might just be it. It could be a pointer to get you to start paying attention to your spouse sudden change in behaviour. However, it is not advisable to conclude that your spouse is cheating on you when you notice these signs. But these signs shows that something is wrong and need to be addressed before things gets out of hand. POSSIBLE SIGNS YOUR SPOUSE IS CHEATING ON YOUR: 1. When they stop being jealous. 2. When they deliberately frustrate your effort to communicate with them. 3. When they become extremely careful with their choice...